Mell

[Mell]

[infectiouspiss]

when god closes a door you reach your little paws under it and go mrrwwaaaooow mmreeaaow

[anarchist-rat-swarm]

When God closes a door, you knock it off its hinges and then kick God in the dick.

[mell-150]

when God closes a door I burn down his house

[Mell]

[marzipanandminutiae]

“you don’t like the proliferation of terms like Unalive outside of TikTok because you realize that you’re aging out of youth culture and it makes you uncomfortable!”

no I don’t like it because there’s something INCREDIBLY dystopian about being forced to soften terms for basic parts of the human experience like death and sex (and even more so terms for oppressed minorities- call me a “le-dollar sign-bian” and I will bite you) purely because advertisers and corporations demand it

[stripedroseandsketchpads]

The idea that young people are getting used to not being able to speak in public about sex, queerness etc without talking around censors, and see this as normal and not a problem, scares me tbh.

[crippledanarchy]

The fact that people are so comfortable with being censored that they Voluntarily censor themselves on words and topics that aren’t even being limited is a terrifying sign

[Mell]

[drdemonprince]

i just FIND IT INTERESTING that the people who say transmisandry is a unique and real and important to discuss form of oppression dont ever talk about, say, misandrynoir or society's hatred of disabled men or fat men or any other intersections being "misandry" and the experiences of other oppressed groups.

It makes exactly 0% sense to treat "misandry" as a real locus of oppression that can intersect with other oppressions only in the context of talking about trans men, and never doing it with anything else.

Black men sure as fuck experience racism in a very particular way. but to date ive never heard someone attempt to call that the intersection between misandry and anti-Blackness, because misandry doesn't fucking exist.

either you believe misandry is a thing or your dont. if you dont think misandry is real, transmisandry as a concept is completely nonsensical. if you dont understand this please read about what intersectionality actually is and how it works and stop co-opting the scholarship of a Black woman legal scholar in order to complain about how there are more trans femme serial killers in movies than trans masc ones or whatever the hell you think youre being left out of.

most of the transmisandry posters are white trans men with a self-victimization complex who cant imagine they have both some very genuine experiences of oppression (transphobia or transmisia, whatever you wanna call it) and also significant privileges. its just so fucking transparent it makes me want to join my chinchilla in chewing the walls

[cock-holliday]

Literally every major post about transandrophobia/transmisandry has been written by men of color, disabled men, fat men, and transmascs with intersecting identities talking about the unique ways that they experience more than "just run of the mill transphobia" because it is specifically directed at them for being masculine or men! like what the fuck are you talking about?

I know you don't actually give a shit so this isn't the point, but there's substantial scholarship on topics like

1. Butchphobia
2. Antimasculism
3. RACISM DIRECTED AT MEN because they are men

Trans men and transmacs face a weird version of misognyny either for being assumed to be a woman, or, because people know they aren't, but think they are being women "wrong." But this type of misogyny isn't terribly compatible with the term "transmisogny" so there needs to be language to account for it.

Likewise, trans men and trans women alike who are seen as predatory men are not in that instance specifically being targeted for being women, they are being targeted for being/seeming like men. It's transphobia...and something else.

Black men being targeted for being "predatory" are very specifically gone after because the "man" part is important in the equation. It's racism...and something else.

I hesitate to even direct you to people talking about it, cause I don't doubt you or others would just shit on them, but holy hell, you are supremely off the mark and like two seconds venture into the tag would direct you to these minority men discussing this shit.

[Mell]

[philosophybits]

“People lose the day in expectation of the night, and the night in fear of the dawn.”

— Seneca, On the Shortness of Life

[Mell]

[thetalkingcow]

Medieval Scooby

[thedreadvampy]

An Ich wōld goÞ awai with-al, wer't non for hērte meddelende youÞen!

[Mell]

[meyouit]

[Mell]

[flyin-shark]

[Mell]

[noneedtofearorhope]

[Mell]

[flork-of-cows-unofficially]

clark reupload

edit: forgot the sweater comic

[gaming-by-al]

[gayluigi]

Can’t believe you forgot the Connecticut dog!!

[amethystsoda]

[Mell]

[wiisagi-maiingan]

Idle reminder that cyberstalking is bad and that if you're following someone across social media for weeks or months to gather "evidence" to prove that they're bad, then you should probably consider whether you're actually the good guy in that situation.

Go do literally anything else. Dig a garden bed. Learn how to embroider. Play a video game. Just stop fucking stalking people online to buff up your callout post so that you feel better about trying to dox someone over fandom drama.